There are many occasions when young people challenge the norms that adults put on them and act disobeying. Their answer in a no-by-system and do what they please.
We adults are responsible for teaching children in nursery schools in Dubai what they can and can not do. Our job is to set limits and rules that contribute to their well-being. In this process it is normal for children to experience and test our authority, it is logical because they are forming their identity and personality. They are testing as far as they can go and what will be the consequence of their actions.
That is why it is important to understand the situation and remain calm, even if these behaviors can lead to despair.
How To Act To Disobedience Of Children Dubai schools?
Try to stay calm, not get angry and put yourself in its place. They are testing the rules. They want to know how far they can go. If you get nervous you get into a fight with them, they’ll make you less.
Take into account the age and stage of the child.
It sets clear and concise rules and limits. Make clear what you can and can not do.
It serves as an example. If we put some rules, we also have to follow them. We must be consistent with the rules we put in place. Children learn more from the examples they see than from what they are told. If you tell him that he does not have to scream, you have to avoid shouting, if you do not want to eat with the television you should not do it, for example.
It reinforces good behavior and punishes bad behavior. The behaviors are maintained or disappear according to the consequences that are obtained from them. Any consequence must follow the desired or undesired behavior. As a reinforcement give him affection, verbalize how well he has done, reward him with your attention. As punishment uses the time to think, look for a corner to think, you should know that when you disobey anger to the corner of thinking, do not threaten it with it, take it there as soon as be necessary. If you leave the corner of thinking, stay calm, do not get upset and bring him back there, explaining that when you behave well you can get out of there. Always tell him what he has done right or wrong and what he has to do, to relate it to the consequence. With older children reason with them, explain the rules. Let them make mistakes and check the consequences of their actions. Help them decide and have confidence.
Choose your battles and distract your attention. In many cases, the child is reaffirming their identity. In other words, his disobedience comes from there. If you distract her attention from something else, you will make her forget that she wants this or that.
Do not forget that when you scold them, you despair and you are above them, they catch your attention and you reinforce the behavior that you want to disappear. They feel that you take care of them that do not go unnoticed.
Finally, it is important to bear in mind that sometimes disobedience is due to other factors, such as attention deficit, hyperactivity, etc.
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